Postsecret of the Day
Posted on November 22nd, 2009 by ellie
Don’t let the color of someone’s skin ever get in the way of love! I sound like Dr. Phil, but deal with it! Love should see no number, no color, and no size. I just made that up, brilliant eh?
Have you ever experienced something like this Postsecret? A time where you felt for someone but he/she couldn’t/wouldn’t be with you because you were not of their nationality? Let us know!
ALL THE TIME ELLIE!!!! the other day we were having a conversation between friends, and my friend was telling us how all his friends think black girls are ugly. I was mortified!!! and then it hit me, not being the same race or even nationality as someone places a huge barrier. It makes me sad tbh but it seems like its sumthing thats far beyond my control.
YES IM IN 10TH GRADE OF HIGH SCHOOL. AND SUDDENLY I LIKE THIS ASIAN BOY LETS JUST CALL HIM (LT) BUT IM SCARED TO TELL HIM I LIKE HIM BECAUSE SADLY IM NOT ASIAN.
I ASKED MY FRIENDS WHAT TO DO AND THEY SAID IT SHOULDN’T MATTER ABOUT RACE. OF COURSE IT DOESN’T MATTER TO ME BUT I DON’T KNOW IF RACE MATTERS TO HIM OR WHAT HIS PARENTS WOULD THINK ABOUT ME SINCE IM NOT ASIAN.
ugh so true…..kind of….like my biological dad was adopted by Japanese people and was raised like that and speaks Japanese did karate the whole shibang and he looks partly asian(he identifies with black) but he doesn’t know his ancestry so i dont claim any links to anything asian just that I love Korean culture lol you would expect me to say Japanese huh? but I found that living in new jersey it all depends on the connection two people have and if the person cares about what their parents think… also what kind of asian parents adopt a black boy and raise him as their own? if that can happen anything can lol
Heh.
I’m mixed (with Asian), but I don’t really look like it. My last bf was Asian (AA), but his parents (mostly his mom) wasn’t to keen on the idea of her son dating outside the race. Thankfully, he was a little more open minded
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Also reminds me, my aunt tells her son that she wants him to marry a nice Asian girl. It’s so ironic because he’s mixed too (even though he looks full Asian) and his mom isn’t the Asian parent. Funny, isn’t it ?
The mixes in my family makes it hard to be close-minded. I’m thankful for that.